Tuesday, August 28, 2012

Fiddle dee dee!

I slept into 10:00am today.  It was glorious.

When we finally got moving, we went up to the Bennett Place.  Another long story short-the Bennett place is a small house that Johnston and Sherman negotiated the terms of the Confederate surrender.

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This was a small historical sight.  The fireplace is the only actual original structure from the house.  Everything else was restored in 1960.  I was a little disappointed in that.  But imagine that Sherman and Johnston sitting at that little table negotiating.  The bedrooms were in the back and were tiny!  And of course, the kitchen was a separate building.  It was pretty spacious though.  But I'm sure it would have been hot with that fireplace going all the time.

Here's the outside:

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(house on the left, kitchen on the right)

Onto Stagville!

I was pretty excited about this.  A historic plantation that dates back to 1787?  Still-standing enslaved homes?  A really big barn?  Yes!

It did not disappoint.  

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The tour started out the Bennehan home.  It was huge.  Even by today's standards.  The house was extravagant too.  Painted walls.  Curtains.  Glass windows from England.  The yellow room was the dining room. The blue room was the "keeping room."  Even here, the kitchen was in another building.  Once the food was ready, they would move it to this room, before being presented in the dining room.

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That's a lot of work.

The cradle you see, was actually used by the family.  Wow.

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That dark picture you see is the one and only closet in the house.  Back then, you were taxed for every door you had in your house.  Each door represented a room.  Therefore, this closet was considered a "room" and the family was taxed for it.  Just another sign of their weath.

And the blue room is the living/entertaining area.  This room was BIG.  I loved the period furniture pieces.  And that picture of the young girl was an original from the house.  She was one of the daughters.  That piece was amazing and beautiful.

The master bedroom was upstairs.  It was big as well.  Bigger than my bedroom.  I just had to take a picture of the bed.  First, it was tiny.  (So were the doorways.)  But if you look closely, the "boxspring" is really just rope. They used a key to tighten the ropes so you wouldn't sag.  Hence, the phrase, "Sleep tight.  Don't let the bedbugs bite."  

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You learn something new every day.

Next we had to drive to the enslaved quarters. There are four buildings still standing! 

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You can see that there is nothing special about them.  Very drab.

When we went inside, there were four rooms on the bottom.  And each family would live in one room.  The adults would sleep in the bed, but the kids would sleep on the floor.

The slaves built these themselves too.  The tour guide had us look at the bricks in the chiminey.  They had to make the bricks and cook them.  But if you start looking at the bricks, they are imperfect.  They had to leave the bricks out in the sun to dry.  But if you notice, the bricks have handprints because they didn't wait until they dried completely.  On one brick, there is a small footprint.  Likely, from a toddler.  I loved how our guide pointed these out.  

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The great barn was our last stop. This was a little ways down the road.  But it was huge!  This was build in 1860 by enslaved hands. There was no blueprint plan.  And it basically is built like an upside down ship.  It has the same techniques and structure as a ship would have been built back then.  All wood was carved and cut by hand.  I can't even imagine.


You can see that the enslaved community has some skills in building.  It was amazing they could build a huge barn with no blueprints, but the fact that most of the buildings are still standing in great condition is a testament to their skills.  Amazing.

This was the closest I have gotten to a Tara-esque plantation like from Gone with the Wind.  I kept imagining Mamie or Katie Scarlett to come out at some point.  Fiddle dee dee!

Goals for this Week

Personal

Finish Ministry of Motherhood by Sally Clarkson  (Some great nuggets of wisdom in this book.  But I wish she would have refrained from her own "interpretation" of segments of the Bible.  It was just unnecessary.)

Finish Bossypants by Tina Fey  (I thought this would be funnier.  And more about her on SNL and 30 Rock.  But it was still good.  Just not what I expected.)

School

No plans for lessons for the rest of August.  I will organize my filing system though.  It's a mess.

Home Management

Dust

Clean out expired coupons in my coupon binder.

And onto this week's goals:  

{With no kids this week and being on "staycation" I have very little that I want to accomplish besides sleeping in and visiting history sites around the city.}

Personal

Finish 7 by Jen Hatmaker

School

 

Plan Letter Nn for September

Home Management

Clean the house before we leave for our trip to pick up the kids!

 

I'm linking to Money Saving Mom!

 

Goals for this Week

Personal

Finish Ministry of Motherhood by Sally Clarkson  (Some great nuggets of wisdom in this book.  But I wish she would have refrained from her own "interpretation" of segments of the Bible.  It was just unnecessary.)

Finish Bossypants by Tina Fey  (I thought this would be funnier.  And more about her on SNL and 30 Rock.  But it was still good.  Just not what I expected.)

School

No plans for lessons for the rest of August.  I will organize my filing system though.  It's a mess.

Home Management

Dust

Clean out expired coupons in my coupon binder.

And onto this week's goals:  

{With no kids this week and being on "staycation" I have very little that I want to accomplish besides sleeping in and visiting history sites around the city.}

Personal

Finish 7 by Jen Hatmaker

School

Plan Letter Nn for September

Home Management

Clean the house before we leave for our trip to pick up the kids!

I'm linking to Money Saving Mom!

Sunday, August 26, 2012

Bentonville Battlefield

Well, here's a history lesson, folks. 

Justin and I wanted to check out an outlet mall and on the way there, we saw a sign for the Bentonville Battlefield.  This was right up our alley seeing that we were kid-less and very interested in Civil War history.  But we figured we would stop after we saw the outlets.

And so we checked out the stores at the outlet.  Nothing exciting to report.  Boo.

We headed back to the Civil War site and drove way out in the middle of nowhere.  I didn't expect much...maybe a field with a plaque? 

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No...it was so much more!  Long story short, this battlefield was the last big battle before the Confederate army surrendered.  It was on March 19-21, 1865.  Basically, the Union army was advancing to Goldsboro in order to take control of the railroad that was there.  This way they would have supplies and such and then render the Confederate Army without a way to get any further supplies.  But, the rebel army surprised the Union Army on the road to Goldsboro and so the last big battle ensued.  You can read more in depth history here.

Our first stop was the Harper House.  This house was commandeered by the Union Army and the bottom level of the house was used as a hospital.  (The battle actually happened about a 1/2 more or more down the road.)

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And I do have to note that today they were having demonstrations of life back in the Civil War.  People were in period costumes.  And we missed out because we just had to check out the outlet mall.  But I guess that was ok, because it was not crowded at all while we were there.

I would love to go back when that is going on though.

Anyways, we did make it in time for the tour of the house.  Only the downstairs was open and it was set up like the Union hospital.

See the make-shift surgery area?  The guide told us that they would just open the windows and amputate arms and legs of injured soldiers.  And then throw the limbs out the window.  Yeow!

Glad we have made some huge advancements in medicine.

Anyways, onto the kitchen.  The kitchen was separate from the house.  It was drab and rustic. But I guess you don't want a kitchen in your house heating it up in the summer time.

The Harper's owned three slaves and this is what their slave quarters would have looked like.  It was drab as well.


After the tour, we went to the Visitor's Center to watch a short film of the battle.  And then we were ready for the driving tour!

We drove a little ways down the road and came across the battlefield.  And it was a field with a plaque out in the middle of a bunch of farms.  But you could stand out and look at it to see which way the different armies were coming at each other. 

It was actually a sombering kind of moment to realize what happened on this ground we were standing on.

We continued down the road and would see where the Union army would camp at, where the Confederate army would line up their youth reserves to help the soldiers.  It was a very interesting tour and I highly recommmend it.

But I will say one thing about the driving tour. Those grayish signs really need to be a bright color.  Like bright neon yellow.  We'd be driving along the road and barely see the sign before we passed it!  We would use our eagle eyes, but then would only catch one or two words on the sign.  So a lot of tour started out like this...

"Wait, there's a sign...it says Conferederate army something.  Maybe they camped here?  I dunno.  I couldn't read the rest." 

But we soon realized that being on country road with no other cars, we could just slow down and then read it.

Silly us.

Anyways, this was a great tour and I'm so glad we stumbled upon it!

Saturday, August 25, 2012

Road Trip! or Hangin' out in Mayberry

We took a minor road trip yesterday.  We met my dad up in Virginia to drop off the kids.  They are staying with them for the whole week. 

And so the kids were comfy in the backseat with their electronics.  Julie is really into the iPod.  And Jax, I love that he is holding his sippy cup the same way when he was a baby.  He's just growing up way too fast.

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We headed our usual route.  Which means we pass Pilot Mountain.

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Which is next to Mt. Airy.  (aka Mayberry)

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We found a neat little spot and tried to take pictures there with the kids.

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Nope.  Not gonna happen.

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We walked over to a park and while the kids were running a muck, I found this sign.  I love how downtown is in the background.

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And wouldn't you know it.  Jax decided he DID want his picture taken.  But only if he posed like a duck.

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Why can't I get a normal, smiling picture of Jax?  Really.  Is that too much to ask for?

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And Jax wanted to pose with Julianne.  I don't think the feeling is mutual.  In fact, I think this picture pretty much sums up their relationship.  Jax, as always, is happy as a clam. While Julie is trying to make her getaway!

Friday, August 24, 2012

The country.

I have found that a drive in the country side in North Carolina is quite entertaining.  The kids are at my Dad's for the week and while we were driving back home, sans kids, Justin decided to take the scenic route. 

I forgot that Justin does this.  While we were dating and married without kids, whenever we traveled we would always go on the off beaten road.  But when kids start occupying the back seat, he stopped because we learned that you need to go the shortest and fastest route to your destination.

But with just the two of us in the car, Justin turned off the freeway and we entered into the country.  North Carolina is pretty.  It was an entertaining drive.

Or so we thought.

You know what is more entertaining than pretty scenery?

Church signs.

It seems in the south that you must have a witty sayings to get people into your church.  Like this:

"Walmart isn't the only saving place."

Or how about:

"God doesn't want weekend custody, he wants full custody."

And:

"Don't let a hearse bring you to church."

But this one was my personal favorite:

"If you don't believe in the bread of life, then you're toast."

This saying works on so many levels.  First, if you don't believe in Jesus you will be lost without him.  But also, you can take this verse quite literally.  If you don't believe in Jesus you WILL be toast in Hell.  In my opinion, this saying was a win-win.  It made me think AND visualize.

I'm not quite sure that a witty saying is going to bring someone into church.  But it sure made our long drive a memorable one.

Tuesday, August 21, 2012

Project Life Tuesday

Tuesday (14)

There was some serious coloring going on this afternoon!  Julie loves to color now as well.

Wednesday (15)

After dinner, Julie and I went to Target.  Little did I know that a HUGE storm was passing through.  We heard the rain pounding on the roof at Target and the thunder was over our head.  I then though..."Oh great.  I'm stuck at Target until this rain stops."  Then I thought..."Hey wait.  I'm stuck at Target!  I have time to look at all the clearance sections!"  But even after we looked at everything in the store, the rain did not let up and Julie and I made a run for it in to the car.  We were soaked!

Thursday (16)

Jaxson was not happy that his crayon was broken.  He was trying to put it back together.

Friday (17)

No picture.

Saturday (18)

Jaxson earned enough money for his Angry Bird game!

Sunday (19)

No picture.

Monday (20)

Little Jules wearing my sunglasses...FUNNY!

Sunday, August 19, 2012

Goals for this Week

Personal

Read Chapter 1 of Ministry of Motherhood by Sally Clarkson  (I actually read a lot more than I thought I would!  Over halfway done.)

Finish The Choice by Suzanne Woods Fisher

School

No plans for lessons for the rest of August.  I will organize my filing system though.  It's a mess.

Home Management

Dust

Clean out expired coupons in my coupon binder.

And onto this week's goals:

Personal

Finish Ministry of Motherhood by Sally Clarkson

Finish Bossypants by Tina Fey

School

No plans for lessons for the rest of August.  I will organize my filing system though.  It's a mess.

Home Management

Dust

Clean out expired coupons in my coupon binder.

I'm linking to Money Saving Mom!

 

Saturday, August 18, 2012

It was an Angry Birds kind of day.

Jax has been working around the house to earn money for his Angry Birds on Thin Ice

Guess what...

He's reached his goal! 

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We headed to Target this morning where he immediately grabbed his Angry Bird game and was so excited because he finally had the money to take it home! 

While we were shopping he told me that he no longer had to work around the house because he had his Angry Birds now. 

I had to remind him that he would probably want other toys, and if he did, that he could always work again.  Of course, that went in one ear and out the other because I don't know what I'm talking about.

And while we ran errands this morning, he didn't let the Angry Birds game out of his sight.  Here he is telling me that he now has 3 different types of Angry Bird games. 

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As if I didn't know.  I pick up those Angry Birds from under the couch, in the washer, and where ever else they end up!

The minute we got home, Justin graciously started lunch so I could sit down and play Angry Birds right away.  Jax could not contain his excitement.  A TNT box!  The pigs have hats!  A really BIG red Angry Bird!  Oh my!

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So this has been the highlight of Jax's day.  Off and on, he would chose us to play with him.  We build the tower..he knocks it down.

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I especially enjoyed when Jaxson announced to us that he is now saving up for Angry Birds Mega Smash.  So he cleared off the dinner dishes from the table tonight and then asked for his quarter. 

Justin explained to him that he didn't have to buy an Angry Birds toy.  He could buy a ball, toy car, etc...

And Jax immediately said, "Oh, an Angry Bird ball?"

Nevermind, Jax.  Nevermind.

Thursday, August 16, 2012

Project Life Tuesday

Tuesday (7)

I've mentioned on facebook that Julie discovered she could drink from the syrup bottle.  I had hid the bottle, but put it back thinking she may have forgotten about it.  She didn't.  And she enjoyed the fact that I let her drink for a second so I could get a silly picture of her. 

Wednesday (8)

"Spiderman" was helping Justin play the Spiderman game on the iPad. 

Thursday (9)

I've perfected my snickerdoodle recipe!  They are pretty addicting.

Friday (10)

We were at Coscto and found cherries from WA!  Maybe it's the same orchard that I grew up by.  Doubt it.  But nice to see a little bit of WA in NC.

Saturday (11)

No picture.

Sunday (12)

The car cart.  I just have to say "thank you" to the inventor.  It makes our life a lot easier when shopping. (And look at Julie's face.  She is really into it!)

Monday (13)

Julie is now loving the iPad and will try to snag it at any chance.  Her favorite app is the Mickey Mouse Road Rally.

Wednesday, August 15, 2012

Goals for this Week

Personal

Read Chapter 9-11 of 1000 Gifts by Ann Voskamp

School

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Plan Letter Nn (I think we will be taking the rest of August off.  I need a break on planning out the lessons.  But we will still have time together to paint, draw, etc.)

Home Management

Look for photo deals for Project Life Album  Aha!  I found one at Rite Aid that expires this weekend.  Seven cents a print?  Yes, please!

And onto this week's goals:

Personal

Read Chapter 1 of Ministry of Motherhood by Sally Clarkson

Finish The Choice by Suzanne Woods Fisher

School

No plans for lessons for the rest of August.  I will organize my filing system though.  It's a mess.

Home Management

Dust

Clean out expired coupons in my coupon binder.

I'm linking to Money Saving Mom!

 

Saturday, August 11, 2012

Anarchy and Angry Birds

It's been a while since I've sat down and wrote a post.  I've tried to keep up with my goals each week.  And Project Life.  But it's hard to have a complete thought after being pulled in all different directions with Jax and Julie through out the day!  Usually by 8pm, I'm spent!

Today we decided to head to the mall.  We've been having some dreary, rainy, humid weather.  See?

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I wanted the kids to run out there energy, preferably in the comfort of a/c.  And so the mall it was.  I also wanted to go to the mall because a new Nestle Tollhouse Cookie shop opened up and they were offering free cookies. 

Yes.  I'll be right there.

And so we went.  We stopped by the Nestle Tollhouse shop, and got a teeny tiny free cookie.  Seriously.  It was a bite-and-a-half cookie.  I should have expected that.  But, it was still good!  And the perfect size for Julie.

Then we headed to the play area.  It wasn't crowded at first.  But slowly, the place was packed.  But the kids were running around and having a good time.  That is, until the mom who let her son in with a balloon.

One balloon.  In the midst of at least 30 preschool kids. 

Justin and I looked at each other in disbelief.  What kind of parent would let their child run around in the play area with a balloon?  Justin said there would be chaos. But you see, it was already chaos with all the kids running around.....I said it would create anarchy. 

And it did.  Suddenly, little kids were reaching out for this little boy's balloon.  Jaxson caught wind of the balloon and needed one IMMEDIATELY.

Luckily, it was time to go and the name of the store was on the balloon.  We told Jax we would look for one.  And Jax wasn't the only kid that had to leave and get a balloon.  I saw another dad promising the same thing to his son as they left as well.

Over a balloon.  I still don't get it.

But Jax did get his balloon. 

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Afterward, we found a Mexican restaurant that we wanted to try.  We chose it mainly because it had chips to dip for the kids.  We could give the kids anchovies and ketchup and they would eat it because they were dipping their food.  Sheesh.

It was naptime and we headed home.  After they woke up, I really needed to go to Target to get some diapers for Julie.  I had a coupon that expired today, so that was my excuse to head to my favorite store ever.

But we made the mistake of going on a Saturday.  In the afternoon.  That place was crazy.  And you know what made it even more crazy?  An Angry Bird Space game. 

I think I have said before that Jax is saving up his money to get the Angry Bird On Thin Ice game.  He's almost has enough to buy it.  But I dread buying it.  Because he already had Angry Bird Knock on Wood game and Spring is in the Air game.  And I have to constantly remind him to keep them out of Julie's reach.  And we are always losing some bird, or egg, or pig and then finding it in weird places.  So I really don't want to have to keep track of three games.  But at least they only have 3 games right?

Wrong.  Now they came out with a Angry Bird Space game.  I'll be honest.  It looks pretty cool.  But, really?  Now there are 4 types of games that Jax just has to have?!

In order to get him out of the store without the Angry Birds in the sacks, Jax wanted to take pictures of the games. 

He took a picture of each item he really liked.  So for instance, he can't wait to have the TNT to play with.

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And he told me this was now his favorite Angry Bird.

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Poor kid.  You would think he has no toys.  But he did put the Angry Bird games back and I've got them on Jax's Amazon wishlist so I know what to get him for Christmas. 

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Unless he saves enough money for the Angry Bird Space game.  Which could happen, I guess.

We came home and ate dinner.  And after dinner, I noticed that Julianne went MIA.  It was real quiet, which is never a good sign.  And this is what I spied when I saw her:

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She is definitely Justin's daughter....playing Angry Birds on the iPad and yet needing to have an iPhone also right next to her.  It was way too cute.  And she was so happy!

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It's been a while since I've sat down and wrote a post.  I've tried to keep up with my goals each week.  And Project Life.  But it's hard to have a complete thought after being pulled in all different directions with Jax and Julie through out the day!  Usually by 8pm, I'm spent!

It's currently 9:15...so hang on tight!

Today we decided to head to the mall.  We've been having some dreary, rainy, humid weather.  See?

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I wanted the kids to run out there energy, preferably in the comfort of a/c.  And so the mall it was.  I also wanted to go to the mall because a new Nestle Tollhouse Cookie shop opened up and they were offering free cookies. 

Yes.  I'll be right there.

And so we went.  We stopped by the Nestle Tollhouse shop, and got a teeny tiny free cookie.  Seriously.  It was a bit-and-a-half cookie.  I should have expected that.  But, it was still good!  And the perfect size for Julie.

Then we headed to the play area.  It wasn't crowded at first.  But slowly, the place was packed.  But the kids were running around and having a good time.  That is, until the mom who let her son in with a balloon.

One balloon.  In the midst of at least 30 preschool kids. 

Justin and I looked at each other in disbelief.  What kind of parent would let their child run around in the play area with a balloon?  Justin said there would be chaos. But you see, it was already chaos with all the kids running around.....I said it would create anarchy. 

And it did.  Suddenly, little kids were reaching out for this little boy's balloon.  Jaxson caught wind of the balloon and needed one IMMEDIATELY.

Luckily, it was time to go and the name of the store was on the balloon.  We told Jax we would look for one.  And Jax wasn't the only kid that had to leave and get a balloon.  I saw another dad promising the same thing to his son as they left as well.

Over a balloon.  I still don't get it.

But Jax did get his balloon. 

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Afterward, we found a Mexican restaurant that we wanted to try.  We chose it mainly because it had chips to dip for the kids.  We could give the kids anchovies and ketchup and they would eat it because they were dipping their food.  Sheesh.

It was naptime and we headed home.  After they woke up, I really needed to go to Target to get some diapers for Julie.  I had a coupon that expired today, so that was my excuse to head to my favorite store ever.

But we made the mistake of going on a Saturday.  In the afternoon.  That place was crazy.  And you know what made it even more crazy?  An Angry Bird Space game. 

I think I have said before that Jax is saving up his money to get the Angry Bird On Thin Ice game.  He's almost has enough to buy it.  But I dread buying it.  Because he already had Angry Bird Knock on Wood game and Spring is in the Air game.  And I have to constantly remind him to keep them out of Julie's reach.  And we are always losing some bird, or egg, or pig and then finding it in weird places.  So I really don't want to have to keep track of three games.  But at least they only have 3 games right?

Wrong.  Now they came out with a Angry Bird Space game.  I'll be honest.  It looks pretty cool.  But, really?  Now there are 4 types of games that Jax just has to have?!

In order to get him out of the store without the Angry Birds in the sacks, Jax wanted to take pictures of the games. 

He took a picture of each item he really liked.  So for instance, he can't wait to have the TNT to play with.

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And he told me this was now his favorite Angry Bird.

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Poor kid.  You would think he has no toys.  But he did put the Angry Bird games back and I've got them on Jax's Amazon wishlist so I know what to get him for Christmas. 

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Unless he saves enough money for the Angry Bird Space game.  Which could happen, I guess.

We came home and ate dinner.  And after dinner, I noticed that Julianne went MIA.  It was real quiet, which is never a good sign.  And this is what I spied when I saw her:

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She is definitely Justin's daughter....playing Angry Birds on the iPad and yet needing to have an iPhone also right next to her.  It was way too cute.  And she was so happy!